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Andrew J. Bresnahan
Tricia C. Bresnahan
Robert P.
Castrignano
Morton Coleman,
M.D.
Janice L. Gabrilove, M.D.
William R. Gruver
Marvin Hochberg
Karen Hughes
Ellen B. Levin
Sandy Levin
John P. Leonard,
M.D.
J. Andrew McEntire
Simone J. McEntire
Edward Moresco
Craig H. Moskowitz, M.D.
Kenneth Offit, M.D.,
M.P.H.
Nancy B. Rooney
Anthony Scaramucci
Lisa T. Scaramucci
David A. Scheinberg,
M.D., Ph.D.
Emily B. Sonnenblick, M.D.
Deanne R. Spiegel
Edward Spiegel***
Sr. Kathleen Toner**
Raymond P. Warrell, Jr.,
M.D.
Joachim Yahalom, M.D.
IN
MEMORY OF
SR. KATHLEEN TONER
EDWARD
SPIEGEL
JOAN ROONEY
DAVID M. KLEIN
***DAVID
M. KLEIN
When
David Klein died on July 5, 2006
at the age of 38
his young soul rose to join the pantheon of men and women who were known
to be honest, forthright, kind, caring, self-effacing, daring,
intellectually gifted and destined to become one of the leaders of our
world… who died too soon. David never stopped being ‘cool’ in the face
of adversity while debilitating, multiple cancers and other illnesses
repeatedly side-tracked him and finally overwhelmed him. His
determination and drive allowed him to complete his Law School studies
even while he was under treatment for Hodgkin’s disease and he was
weakened by his radiation and chemotherapy treatments. His grit allowed
him to surmount the agonizing pain of his leg bones crumbling… finally
recovering sufficiently after two experimental operations to be able to
resume walking without crutches and even return to skiing and especially
to recover sufficiently to bicycle across the United States from coast
to coast… a challenge he undertook after completing a successful tenure
in private law practice when he decided to change the course of his life
and fulfill a special dream and a personal physical and mental
challenge. A second cancer, a colon cancer, finally proved to be too powerful to
survive, but David leaves an important legacy for us to remember him by…
his memoir entitled Savoring Life in Sickness and Health.
This inciteful memoir replete with David’s scary, but sometimes
wonderful experiences as a patient and as a lone rider on a bicycle trip
across the United States puts you inside his head and his heart as he
recalls all the problems and the victories associated with his medical
and surgical treatments and periods of rehabilitation. When he finally
launches into his true life story of his solo bicycle ride across
America you ride with him on a journey few could ever contemplate and
only a few could ever undertake and complete. “Awesome!” he says, “If I
were limited to one word to describe my solo self-contained bike trek
across America it would have to be “awesome”. It was magnificent,
formidable, inspiring and gratifying.”
The most important
part of David’s memoir was his expression of his philosophy of life…
that included lessons for all of us to heed… and especially as he
summarized in his “Conclusion.”
“With the right perspective we should be able to appreciate life in both
good and difficult times. Life is more savory when we don't take things
for granted, which unfortunately is all too easily done. Life is less
savory when we lose our sense of proportion and ability to identify what
is and what is not a big deal. It is particularly easy to fall prey to
taking things for granted when you have never experienced significant
injury, illness or adversity. Those of you in this category ought to be
sure to step back and appreciate what you have and what you can achieve.
My
experiences have taught me that we have significant innate abilities to
deal with injuries, illnesses and exceedingly difficult circumstances in
healthy productive manners. In such situations we should count on
ourselves as much as anyone else. As cliché as it is, once we face a
difficult situation we will probably come through as stronger, better
people with a greater sense of what is truly important and what is
chaff. To that end it is important to distinguish between keeping a
positive outlook and hoping for the best, from embracing irrationally
positive expectations which can result in our making poor choices. We
need to believe that exceptional results can be obtained, but have
rational expectations based on our circumstances. I have faith that when
we have the right perspective, reach for the extraordinary, but accept
our limitations, we will achieve gratifying lives.”
As one of David’s early medical consultants
and later getting to know him as a friend I weep at the loss of this
young man cut down so early in the
course of his life.
Mortimer J. Lacher, M.D
**Sr.
Kathleen Toner, an esteemed member of the Lymphoma Foundation Board died, on
November 11, 2003 and the Board members take this
moment to reflect on the extraordinary life of Sr. Kathleen Toner.
In May 1978 Kathleen was diagnosed with widespread stage IVB Hodgkin’s
disease. With the institution of combination chemotherapy (TVPP-Thiotepa,
Velban, Prednisone and Procarbazine) and additional radiation therapy she was
able to survive for 25 1/2 years until late occurring complications secondary to
the radiation therapy created the progression of cardio-pulmonary failure that
led to her death. Sister Toner not only contributed to the scientific literature
regarding the use of unique forms of chemotherapy and the analysis of pregnancy
and birth after treatment for Hodgkin’s disease but she carried out a life-long
service to abused women and children as she founded and maintained a unique home
for these individuals in Samaritan House in Brooklyn, New York.
Her gentle kindness to all persons and wise
counsel was deeply appreciated by all who were fortunate to know her.
A MEMORIAL TRIBUTE TO Sr. KATHLEEN TONER 1944–2003
What would she want
us to say? What would she want us to do about remembering her life? She
would want us to be silent. She would insist on self-effacement and
quiet. But our voices cry out and our hearts weep over the death and
the loss of this gentle but powerful woman. If you can imagine how a
physician can find a deep inner warmth for his patients… those who
survive and those who are lost… to cancers that the physician was
determined to cure… then you can imagine the intense feelings I had for
Kathleen. And I was not alone in my special love for Kathleen. I shared
that love with all who knew her and who received her help in both
practical and spiritual ways either as the founder and developer of
Samaritan House for abused women and children or as a first-class
research assistant when we worked together analyzing the data regarding
the uniquely successful RT-TVPP radiation chemotherapy combination or
the recording of the marvelous miracle of post-chemotherapy successful
pregnancies enjoyed by so many young women or as she applied her
compassionate understanding of human nature to give needed counsel to so
many men, women and children in their time of woe and social
desperation. In the end as in the beginning when Kathleen first appeared
twenty-five years ago for treatment of her stage IV Hodgkin’s disease
that had invaded her lungs and so many other parts of her body… she
fought to survive … and until that final illness she repeatedly rose up
from almost certain death to accomplish great societal works. It is with
gratitude that we incorporate Kathleen’s example of the best in human
behavior and adopt her willful presence into our own sense of being…
that allows us to carry her spirit forward in ourselves and to pass this
on to our children and their children to be sure to eventually achieve
the ideal world of Kathleen’s hopes and dreams. — Mortimer J. Lacher,
M.D.
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